Nobody can make you feel the way you do except you. Peace
Next time say something. Just because you are christian doesn't mean you allow people to walk all over you. You work for the company the company pays you you can always reject a table this is america land of the free home of the brave.
You get allot more problems with poor people than people with money, at least people with money will tip you better if they are rude, you still know you will get something.
Let them know you are not working there to get bullied, and leave them there. Just do it.
You need to speak up or your going to continually be harassed.
People notice everything, don't let them fondle you.
I should slap you. SPEAK UP! NEVER BE AFRAID. "hugs"
YOUR WHOLE LIFE ISNT GOING TO BE RUINED IF YOU REJECT ONE TABLE. think.
let go and go in with a new attitude a strong one
people get like that all the time what you have to realize is most the time other people are watching and listening and saying ( man that ladies a *****, i feel bad for her kids) they feel the same way you do lol trust me
when you work you are going to have people who are good and bad, its just a normal part of life.
Hey everyone, for privacy reasons i wont say where i work .
But i started a job a week ago, tonight was my 4th night, and i was working the cash register solo for the first time, I was doing a good job, but i was a tad bit slow compared to veteran employees.
I helped 2 women and their 5 screaming children, the women ordered their food extremely fast, and got very annoyed when i asked them to repeat a few personalization options on there orders. They paid, and i gave them their drinks, thinking i had seen the last of them, i started to help other customers. One woman stomps back in and calls me ignorant because her salad had grilled chicken on it and not crispy, (not my fault, it was a mistake in the kitchen) but I helped her and brought her a fresh salad. She was still very rude, and dismissed me with a 'go away' and a rude wave. I ignored her and went back to my station, then her 5 kids came up with coupons for 3 free ice creams, they didn't seem to understand that i could not give 2 more away for free, but i tried my best to explain. Of course the kids ran and told their moms , and both women, paraded over and began yelling for me to get a manager, I did, and as soon as my boss got there the same salad woman called me a f-ing *****, and said they should fire me for being so rude and stupid. The place was packed, and she was making a huge scene over this, i was Biting my tongue , i apologized to them and explained i was new, they didn't seem to notice, and simply told me 'ill pray that you aren't that stupid l in life' i told them to have a nice day. My boss and other employees said nothing to me for the remainder of my shift, and i left in a hurry. I couldn't help but cry when i got to my car, i work in a 'christian place' and i at least expected my boss to talk to me and explain to me what to do in those situations, but i got nothing. Im beyond hurt, and overall very annoyed and mad. Does anyone have any advice for me.?
Thanks for reading, by the way.