If you start nickle & dimming every little thing you will go nuts. It does not matter who has or does not have what. 3 people split everything 3 ways. PERIOD.
Yes this is fair. You have the rights to have any electrical appliances you want too. If you choose not to that's your right.
Sounds fair. 3 people, 3 way split. He should not be supporting you.
I share an apartment with my girlfriend and another room mate, my girl and i share a room, share food, and dont even have a tv set up. However, we are paying two thirds the rent+utilities. I was curious to see if in others minds, this was fair.
More info, he has a mini fridge two gaming consoles and a large tv plus radio that he leaves plugged in and running all night.