This is a personal decision, my dear.
I will only suggest that you go with whichever is more affordable. You don't need to be financially stressed on top of all else.
while i can't help you make that decision, i will say if you decide to not move into the new place, all you will lose is the app fee and holding fee.
I suggest you remain where you are and renew the lease
If you are financially able to move,then this might be the thing to do. Keep in mind that normally you would be required to pay the first month rent,as well as deposit that could equal the monthly rent. You might also be required to pay to a deposit have your utilities turned on at another location.
You would also be required to buyout the remainder of your current lease agreement since it is in effect until next year.
I have found that if my gut tell me to do something, it is best to follow this feeling. Normally if I don't I find myself second guessing myself later.
Though the father of your children do not live with you, he should be contributing to the welfare of his children. This has nothing to do with you being an independent woman. In order to have children it take one person of each sex. His contribution if for the benefit of his children and might not have anything to do with you what so ever other than the fact you decide what your and his children would need.
I hope this has been of some benefit to you, good luck.
"FIGHT ON"
I am a firm believer that women should always maintain the ability to be independent, and be able to support themselves in a decent manner whether there's a man involved or not. So while I can't make a judgment call about what's best for you in your relationship, I can offer that bit of advice. If staying another year means you'll be able to save up more or make yourself that much more financially secure, then do it if you're not too uncomfortable. Just make sure that whatever option you choose, it is the best option financially for you and your daughters regardless of what he does.
I got approved for a duplex 3 bedrooms. I have two daughters one 8 and one 6 months old we live in a 2 bedroom apartment now, my lease is almost up and i would need to renew it. Their father and I are working on our relationship and we don't live together and won't til we are both ready. But I'm a college student working on my masters degree . I kind of feel like I'm taking on too much by moving right now and that I should stay where I'm at and move next year when my lease is up. The duplex said if I change my mind I can just cancel the application since I didn't sign a lease or pay anything besides an application fee and 100 to hold the place. I'm still undecided what to do!! Stay or move. Any suggestions?
